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Pre-Marital Counseling for Engaged Couples on Long Island

Chana offers Pre-Marital Counseling for Engaged Couples on Long Island

Whether you’re negotiating how to plan a family, concerned about how to manage finances, or navigating through a 2nd marriage, premarital counseling is the perfect place to discuss all matters related to married life.

Therapy doesn’t always mean a relationship is at its breaking point. Many couples are seeking to address difficult issues before conflict arises.

Every couple that gets engaged should go through premarital counseling. Partners learn how to deal with issues that may arise before they become a problem. This gives couples confidence and peace while stepping into a new chapter of their lives.

Through Imago relationship therapy, couples will learn how to communicate effectively with one another. During sessions with an Imago couples therapist, you may address family origins.

As a counselor, Chana assists couples develop safety and connection within their relationship, such as with:

  • Relationship Goals
  • Things of Importance / Value: friendships, alone time, date nights
  • Conflicts & Communication: learning to argue in the most effective way
  • Sex & Intimacy
  • Finances: bank accounts, paying bills
  • Children / Parenting: if you want children, parenting beliefs & styles
  • Family & Blended Families: visiting times, setting boundaries, holidays
  • Social & Religious Beliefs
  • Making decisions as a couple
  • Vacations – Guy’s/Girl’s Trips
  • Defining Roles, cooking, shopping, cleaning, taking care of finances

Therapy should be viewed as an act of self care / personal maintenance, a sign of maturity, and overall healthiness.

Set yourself up for marital success – Contact Chana Pfeifer, LCSW, to schedule an appointment in-person or online.

Chana Pfeifer provides counselin to individuals, pairs of family members, and couples of all kinds in the Nassau County areas of Long Island, NY including:

Baldwin  Bellmore  Bethpage  Briarwood  Carle Place  Cedarhurst  East Meadow  East Rockaway  Elmont  Farmingdale  Floral Park  Forest Hills  Franklin Square  Freeport  Fresh Meadows  Garden City  Glendale  Hewlett  Hicksville  Howard Beach  Inwood  Jamaica  Kew Gardens  Laurelton  Lawrence  Levittown  Island Park  Little Neck  Long Beach  Lynbrook  Malverne  Manhasset  Massapequa  Merrick  Mineola  New Hyde Park  Oceanside  Ozone Park  Plainview  Richmond Hill  Rockville Centre  Roslyn  Seaford  Uniondale  Valley Stream  Wantagh  Westbury  West Hempstead  Williston Park  Woodhaven  Woodmere

CHANA PFEIFER is one of Long Island’s best marriage counselors that has helped couples achieve greater coping skills to manage life’s stresses & challenges.

The benefits of premarital counseling:

Premarital counseling is probably one of the farthest things from your minds. However, as the date draws nearer, you may begin to wonder how it could help strengthen your relationship with your significant other.

Premarital counseling is designed to set you up in the best positive way for marriage. It helps you and your partner address the areas that couples commonly struggle with. Many people assume counseling is for people that are in the midst of challenges. But premarital counseling is to help you avoid troubling times. That means, it’s a great fit for every engaged couple.

If toxic relationship patterns can be identified early and agreed upon, the process of real change can begin.
A motivated couple can begin to explore their problems from a new perspective and learn new ways to recognize and resolve conflicts as a result of the tools provided by the therapist.
Partners can begin to build trust and improve communication.
A counselor can provide “neutral territory” to help couples agree upon and work through tough issues with support.

For additional information on premarital counseling, please call (516) 592-1107 or email Chana Pfeifer at TheHappierMe.LCSW@gmail.com

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Offices in both Cedarhurst and West Hempstead:

422 Berrywood Court West Hempstead, NY 11552
222 Rockaway Avenue Building 1 Cedarhurst, NY 11516

Pre-Marital Counseling Check-In

Premarital Counseling LINYLEARN TOOLS TO CREATE A SOLID FOUNDATION OF RELATIONSHIP

Pre-marital counseling with Chana Pfeifer, LCSW, Certified Imago Therapist.

Sunday, July 28, 2019, 9 am – 11 am

Anoz Spa Boutique 281 Nassau Blvd., Garden City South

Register before 7/12, $50 per couple.
Register after 7/12, $100 per couple.

PRE-MARITAL COUNSELING CHECK-IN:  LIMITED SPOTS AVAILABLE

Pre-Marital Counseling Goals:

 Learn a new way to talk and listen
 Uncover opportunities for emotional growth in relationship
 Practice tools
 Share at your comfort level

Important Topics to Discuss Before the Wedding:

 The way I would like our relationship with our parents to look like
 How I feel about discussing our issues with them
 How I feel about having children, how many I would like
 My thoughts about childcare, parenting, what I like, what I don’t like
 How I feel about money, saving, spending, debts, credit report
 Spending our free time together / apart
 How I imagine to divide household chores
 Fun activities I want to plan together
 I like to be home versus I want to go out (and travel)
 Where I envision living permanently
 A topic we have NOT discussed that I want to bring up is…

Connection:

 The key to connecting is safety
 What does safety feel like?
 Focus on creating safety for each other
 Romantic love is the joy of being connected

For additional information about attending, please call (516) 592-1107 or email Chana Pfeifer at TheHappierMe.LCSW@gmail.com.

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