Gift Ideas if Your Partner’s Love Language is Physical Touch

Use your partner’s love language as inspiration for a gift! When you align a gift with their love language, you’re showing your partner that you understand them and know how to make them feel appreciated.

If your partner’s love language is physical touch, here’s some ideas to get you started:

Daily Affection – Incorporate simple, consistent acts of physical touch into your daily routine. This could be a quick hug before you leave for work, a kiss on the cheek as you pass, or a hand on their back while you’re talking.

Couples Massage – Massage allows for a deep level of connection and affection through touch, catering to those who feel most loved through physical contact.

Sensual Treats – Cater to their love for physical touch with luxurious items like a super plush bathrobe, soft slippers, or a fluffy bed pillow.

Romantic Gadgets – Surprise them with something that can help you connect or to try something new in the bedroom.

Initiate Intimacy – If appropriate, consider initiating sexual intimacy and making sure your partner feels seen, heard and understood.

If your partner’s love language is physical touch, also consider any other of the five love languages that they prefer.

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Sometimes it can be difficult to get your spouse to talk about the issues you’re both experiencing. It’s important to remember that it might not be a matter of them not wanting to talk about things, but rather them not knowing exactly how to talk about them. This is where couples therapy with Chana Pfeifer, LCSW might come in handy!

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Physical intimacy in a relationship is important for couples. Holding hands, massaging each other, cuddling during a movie, etc. keeps your bond together. It’s not just about sex. It’s about connecting physically and emotionally.

Not only can affectionate touch promote feelings of bonding and attachment in couples, but in long-term relationships, it also contributes to overall physical health and well-being.

Chana Pfeifer will help each partner make clear what he or she needs, so the partner can feel safe to give it. She assists couples in difficult times come into safety and connection. She helps partners be heard. She helps couples work through conflict and anger to create an environment of “getting my world”.

For more info. on counseling, call (516) 592-1107 or email Chana Pfeifer at TheHappierMe.LCSW@gmail.com