No one thinks it would happen to them, but after an affair is discovered, many people find it difficult to understand why the betrayal happened…
Regardless of how you define infidelity, it comes down to one thing: betrayal.
It can severely strain a relationship and the people involved.
Perhaps you are struggling with the common emotions of anger and shock, or dealing with confusion and guilt.
Healing Broken Trust
When a couple experiences any level of betrayal it is common to ask:
How can I ever trust again?
Is this even fixable?
Trust needs to be repaired if a couple decides to stay together after an affair. This can take time and delicate attention.
Begin the conversation that will ideally bring you to a place where you can begin working on the relationship together.
Have You Been Unfaithful? Do you struggle with:
Feeling like it’s impossible to heal?
Do you wonder if you could ever make them happy again?
Feeling like you’re never good enough?
Do you wonder if you should try to heal the relationship?
Do you wonder if you should just quit trying?
Are you afraid that if you work on the relationship it won’t get better?
Has Your Partner Been Unfaithful? Do you struggle with:
Feeling like you’ll never get over the betrayal?
Do you wonder if the pain will ever go away?
Wondering if you’ll ever satisfy their needs?
With feelings of not being good enough?
Do you wonder if your life could ever get back together?
Do you wonder if you should stay or leave?
Affair Counseling Long Island, NY
Private counseling by an experienced infidelity specialist can be extremely helpful. Chana Pfeifer does not pass judgment and your time is completely confidential. Confiding in an expert can give you the support that you need and the precise guidance that you are seeking.