If your partner’s love language is gift giving and you’re trying to figure out a gift to actually give them, you can begin asking yourself if this is going to be a fun gift or a helpful one. Gifts don’t have to be expensive in order to be meaningful. Just pick something that shows your partner that you know and appreciate who they are.
Essentially, gift giving is anything that says…
- “I was thinking of you..”
- “I remember you like this..”
- “I saw this and thought of you..”
- “I knew you’d love this”
Here are some ideas to consider:
Gifts that reflect their hobbies. Support your partner’s interests with a unique gift related to their favorite hobby. Give a camera accessory for the photography enthusiast, a vinyl record player for the music lover, a set of gardening tools for the green thumb, or a new kitchen gadget for the cook. This gesture expresses support for your partner’s happiness.
Gifts personalized just for them. Personalized gifts show your partner you pay attention to the things they specifically love. Surprise them with a customized gift basket filled with their favorite foods, sending a beautiful bouquet of flowers in their favorite color, an engraved necklace, matching bracelets, a charm that represents something special to you both, or a custom photo album documenting your relationship.
Self-care / healthy gifts: Pamper your partner with gifts that promote self-care and relaxation. Set up a sensory-filled bath with oils, candles and music for when they come home from work, give them a spa day voucher, new silky sheets, a luxurious robe, or a package of their favorite health supplements. This shows that you care about their well-being and want them to feel cared for.
Making an effort to consistently show your partner how much you care strengthens the bond between you.
Out of the 5 Love Languages, if your partner’s preferred love language is gift giving, it’s not just about the material object, but the thought and careful intention behind it.